- · Always go for check-ups.
- · Take the results of your check-ups seriously if you must go on treatment, do it as soon as it is recommended.
- · Own your condition, your situation and your decisions.
- · Medicine knows a lot more about these things, avail yourself of the science and the knowledge fully.
- · Never stop your medication without medical advice, you are not cured until medicine gives the final verdict – your pastor is NOT your doctor.
- · The medicine contains the virus and allows your immune system to recover so that you are not beaten by opportunistic infections.
- · There is always help for your condition, social, emotional, obviously medical and much else, despite the stigma that associates with being a Person Living With HIV.
- · Seek therapy at any opportunity, it works.
- · Things might be difficult after an HIV diagnosis, but it is not the end of life, see it as the beginning of a new life, knowing your vulnerabilities and gaining new strengths.
- · Your friends are closer than you think they are.
Tuesday, 1 December 2015
World AIDS Day: From a person with AIDS to just living with HIV
Monday, 1 December 2014
World AIDS Day 2014
- · Know your status and renew this knowledge at least every year. Get TESTED regardless.
- · If your status indicates being HIV positive, seek immediate medical intervention, you might be put on ARVs and these drugs are usually free.
- · Do not for the fear of the knowledge of your status allow HIV to waste you away, there is abundant help for you to have a useful life.
- · If you have exposed yourself in unsafe activity, enquire if you can have access to PrEP, this like the morning after pill.
- · We are all sexual beings, it is a natural human need. Do not be embarrassed about your sexual life that you deny yourself opportunities to live longer after you have discovered you have a sexually transmitted infection, no matter how minor it looks, seek help and remedy.
- · Learn more about HIV/AIDS and know how to keep your health and yourself safe.
Sunday, 1 December 2013
World AIDS Day 2013: Eleven years with HIV
Friday, 22 November 2013
Europe: HIV Testing Week - Get Tested
Sunday, 11 August 2013
The UK: My Serious Concerns About HIV Home-Testing Kits
Saturday, 1 December 2012
World AIDS Day: Banish the Ignorance
Tuesday, 14 August 2007
The flaw of the covenant
Bringing reason to bear
Rarely, does one find oneself so utterly impressed by the legal exposition of a matter of contemporary import as one that I read this evening.
Funmi Iyanda, the broadcaster, columnist, journalist and articulate blogger based in Nigeria leads the home end of reason against the developing assault on the female populace of Nigeria by male chauvinistic pigs masquerading as the law, the rule, the norm and the sanction for a harmonious society.
These are exemplified in assailing ladies in seemingly “indecent” states of dress on the streets of Lagos, the barring of ladies from church for wearing trousers and other supposedly “uncomely” wear, the compulsory testing for pregnancy where a positive result prevents an academically capable student from graduation and the attribution of HIV/AIDS testing mainly to sexual immorality.
Many have debunked these splenetic acts of unwarranted prejudice and malicious abuse of authority in the name of the law, religion and upholding societal morals.
In fact, it is sad, that many have been cajoled and subsumed into accepting the unacceptable as those in authority exceed the limits of rationality in what is becoming an embarrassing ego rush that should elicit a complete U-turn very soon.
Bringing the law to bear
Chidi Anselm Odinkalu, a renowned civil rights lawyer with a knack for well-structured legal arguments that completely ridicules indefensible bigoted and prejudicial edicts, comes to the rescue with this opinion piece at allAfrica.com with the title Nigeria: In the Name of the Father?
This is a must-read, and as Funmi Iyanda says in her blog, when the rational speak up, we have hope that things would definitely turn out right.
In all that this learned gentleman expounded with global case law, putative references in the Nigerian constitution and other treaties or agreements Nigeria is signatory to; he contends that a university cannot operate under the premise that “clearly discriminates against women, feeds public prejudice and discrimination against women and persons living with HIV-AIDS, fulfills no rational public policy or purpose, and is plainly egregious in its illegality.”
That is a very strong rebuke which goes on appeal to the Christian compassion of organisations that portend to lift society, that they should know “People who are living with HIV must be treated with compassion and understanding. They must not be condemned to 'economic death' by the denial of equal opportunity. The same must be said for single mothers.”
This, if anything should bring the Covenant University to repentance involving their reflecting on these atrocious playground rules and tempering them with the rational set of values expected of a university of excellence – For which I would gladly join the chorus that ends this sorry saga with - Amen!
Thanks to Funmi Iyanda for the link that inspired this blog.