Showing posts with label discussion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label discussion. Show all posts

Thursday, 16 January 2025

A benign review of a malignant past

The shifting feasts of consulting

This was my third outing of the week after church on Sunday and the office on Tuesday. I had a rescheduled appointment from December that I attended yesterday. It was my usual biannual checkup, which has shifted from the April/October cycle to a January/July cycle in three years.

Once I realised, I would not be able to attend the early December appointment because I would be out of the country, I called to postpone the appointment and reschedule it to mid-January. I ensure I never miss my hospital appointments or consultations as it deprives others of time and audience with scarce medical personnel.

A miscommunication between us some 18 months ago meant I never received my expected scheduling for May, and we fell into a June/December cycle that only happened once. Besides rescheduling, I was promptly given a prescription to make up for the additional time.

Let’s keep to what we discussed

For this consultation, I had a few issues to discuss, the main one being the unfortunate mismanagement of information that I should not have received until I had met the consultant involved in that area of investigation and diagnosis. The computerisation of personal medical records meant that a certain diagnosis ended up in my clinic notes that the person I met should have redacted before forwarding to my doctor and I.

Blog - The note that crept in

The sinking feeling of reading a diagnosis of adenocarcinoma of prostate over a week before my scheduled appointment with the consultant urologist was as earth-shattering as it was a humbling reminder of one’s mortality. When I remonstrated with the doctor, he offered to redact the diagnosis, but what good was bolting the doors after the horses had bolted?

Meeting with the chief consultant of the team that had assumed my care for over a decade and she for about 8 years, she immediately understood the issue.

She said she would raise an incident with the multidisciplinary teams to ensure that they are aware of what information gets passed to the patient; that it is centred on their particular consultations; and that the more interested patients can assess seemingly hidden interdepartmental communications to read the chatter pertaining to them.

A malignant test of the benign

For me, what I learnt was the difference between the definition of malignant to the layperson and the medical establishment. When I read malignant adenocarcinoma of the prostate in interdepartmental communications, I read it as a qualifier of the type of cancer, something rampaging and very likely to cause death.

To the medical eye, malignant always means cancer regardless of stage or metastasis. The absence of cancer in the presence of a growth or tumour will be considered benign. [Medical News Today: What are the different types of tumour?]

My consultant patiently explained the terms fully to enhance my understanding. Other issues in my notes were from the perspective of the person I saw. Any similarities would suggest a lazy engagement, as situations and circumstances do change between visits.

All good and nice

We discussed the readings of my blood tests, and the need for new assays, though this time without a urine sample and at the end of my allotted time with a medical student present, I was handed on to the phlebotomist who had no problem drawing three vials of blood before I was sent on my way to collect my renewed prescription and I made my way home.

In all, the consultation was pleasant, and the typical readings were within normal range, it is likely I have lost a centimetre in height, and the physiotherapy to address issues in my spine will not commence until all the other medical issues are resolved.

Sunday, 22 January 2023

Thought Picnic: In the omerta of abuse

No perfect narrative exists

There are taboo topics that society, community, or situation makes too difficult to talk about for many reasons from not having a frame of reference in which to conceptualise and understand to the need to avoid engagement so that the horror of that reality does not inflict on our comfort.

In the matters of child sexual abuse, domestic violence, sexual assault, or bullying, some of which I have addressed in my almost 20 years of blogging, finding the form of words to discuss with the hope that it does not upset is one for which there is neither art, skill, nor perfection to convey silent suffering and the associated issues.

Why they suffer in silence

I would guess that is the reason that obvious and apparent victims do not share their experiences and mostly never report anything because of shame or embarrassment, worse still the default audience sits in judgement with the view that there is much more that could have been done to prevent things happening to oneself.

Yet, reporting any abuse is not as easy as making a customer complaint or reporting a theft, the violation of the person is visceral, it starts with the body, as the mind considers what has happened, and the spirit is grieved in the realisation of that truth. Maybe, the bruised body can be healed, and the conflicted mind can with time find peace, to reach into the spirit to enliven it is a whole different matter. A person must find their way just as they have to work with the dreams and imaginations that play in their heads.

Wrestling back some agency

That these taboos need to see the light of day through expression, sharing, and talking about it so that perpetrators realise that they do not hold any power over the people they violate or are emboldened to act with impunity is necessary. However, navigating the present to gain the support, sympathy and empathy needed to grow would never be an easy task.

The child abused who on mentioning it is shut down because the adults who should protect them cannot deal with it, the person who has suffered domestic abuse takes the blame for instigation rather than the abuser getting excoriated, sexual assault is seen as opportunistic and victimless that partners of victims are more hurt than the one molested, being on the receiving end of bullying considered an act and state of weakness when one is expected to fight back and put a stop to it.

Help, don’t worsen it

The long hard mile that others would never walk in the shoes of the wearer is deemed the easiest feat of endeavour. People in pain from living through it are doubly hurt by others taking on the same pain for what they never lived. It is a strange world, you begin to believe that the cruellest thing to allow to happen to yourself is to suffer pain, to be a victim, to be caught in circumstances you should have controlled but you failed to.

Whilst silence cannot be the answer, we have to find it somewhere in our human nature to consider, to appreciate, to understand, to commiserate, to empathise, to feel, and to know, that others will have experiences beyond our comprehension, if we cannot help them, we should not make it worse. Sadly, this all is part of the story of our humanity, much as we would love better stories. I do not have the answers, we should be careful of taking offence in the hurt of another.

Once again, “Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.” [Romans 14:22b] The journey of self-healing is lonely, scary, unsure, and not guaranteed. You take each day as vulnerable and human with the hope that there is better ahead.

Friday, 27 December 2019

Nigeria: You'll keep hearing from us in the diaspora


Out, yet about
I have been out of Nigeria for a long time, 29 years in 3 days and I have my reasons. However, my absence from Nigeria has not become isolation or disengagement from Nigeria. I have a Nigerian heritage, I share elements of my identity with Nigerian, and I have significant members of my family, parents, and siblings in Nigeria.
What gets me agitated is when people assume Nigerians abroad have abandoned the country and by that should have no say in what happens there. There is a trope of othering that is becoming the mainstay of some influential commentators n social media who expect us to shut up and slink into insignificance rather than be heard or seen.
Fossils endure still
I had to deal with this way back in 2007 when a son of the then President of Nigeria working for Microsoft visited home and regaled us with pictures of servants at the presidential palace of Aso Rock sleeping in atrocious penurious conditions without any sense of appreciating how unreflective that situation was.
He went on to say, “I like how Naija (jargon for Nigeria) people who have abandoned their country like you carry on as if they are more Naija than anyone else.
In my addressing this issue in the blog I wrote then, I gave reasons why I might have abandoned Nigeria, it was however rich of him to suggest those in the diaspora were carrying on as if we were more Nigerian than anyone else, considering he is of great privilege and his father was still around 3 decades after he first left power in 1979.
See us here
Then, I do not presume to suggest that Nigerians in the diaspora should arrogate to themselves primacy in the affairs of Nigeria, but they can neither be ignored nor be seen as insignificant. A few months ago, a report from PricewaterhouseCoopers averred that Nigerian migrants remitted 6.1% of its GDP in 2018 at $23.63 billion which was a 17% increase on 2017, with estimates expected to rise in the next three years to US$25.5bn, US$29.8bn and US$34.8bn respectively. [PwC Report PDF]
The Central Bank of Nigeria disputes the estimate suggesting it is closer to a tenth, what is surprising is how nothing is said to account for the sudden downward trend that had been growing linearly for over a decade. [CBN – Vanguard]
I have used the case of the volume of remittance to propose the idea that like as taxation might spur a popular demand for government accountability, leading to better governance. The contributions of the diaspora cohort should earn them a right as stakeholders to have a say in what happens in Nigeria.
We’re all affected
The truth is everyone who has a Nigerian heritage is affected by the situation in Nigeria whether at home or abroad. The prosperity of Nigeria is the prosperity of all of us and the less of a burden on those who sometimes have to cater for the absence of a social welfare system and other social services and infrastructure deficits that hold progress back in Nigeria. Beyond that, we should be able to have a conversation on the political, economic, social and human rights situation in Nigeria towards affecting and improving outcomes.
Last night, I had to tackle another of those myopic and reductive views of Nigerian in diaspora and their contributions to the Nigerian system in all its ramifications. We might have left Nigeria, we are still involved, engaged, affected and contributing in varied measures to address issues that concern family, friends, strangers, charities and any other sphere we can find to influence for the better.

Our voices will be heard
We are not going away and those who cannot stand other Nigerians abroad having a voice would have to lump it or leave it, we all have a stake in the country and earlier we begin to realise we need each other, the better it would be for us to create the unity of purpose to bring the change, we desire to see in Nigeria.
Our silence will not be bought nor will our contributions which arrive as remittances but permeate the full-body polity of Nigeria be considered insignificant as to render us voiceless.
In brotherhood/sisterhood we have to stand to make a difference, we the unwitting ambassadors of Nigeria in our respective foreign communities creating the impressions that help positive views of the country along with the hardworking hands and minds in-country making a direct and effective difference in the lives of their localities.

Monday, 6 June 2016

Àwọn adití ajá - Deaf dogs

The Facebook forum
Facebook presents an interesting forum for interaction, the exchange of views and ideas, but there is also a very unpalatable side of the Facebook discussion.
It is probably not a discussion as such, the broad church of social discourse is generally friendly, however, when we begin to challenge the norms, espouse the liberality of expression and fight for the expansion of human rights, for the open-minded, it flourishes, but it also gives vent to the primal and uncouth tendencies of others.
Nowhere is this matter as volatile as one that involves religion or more particularly homosexuality.
He stands out
I am a Facebook friend and a personal friend of a gay rights activist whose shares a lot of views that many might term controversial.
There is no doubt that I have felt sometimes uncomfortable with some of his views, but I appreciate that we can have differences and different perspectives, my occasional disagreement will never tend to disagreeableness, that is the function of respect we have for each other, we can agree to disagree without damaging our relationship.
He stands out as someone who has always had the courage of his convictions and has never been afraid to express them boldly, forcefully and forthrightly.
On controversy they feed
Then, there are people who contribute to his page who for whatever reason, out of envy, jealousy, rage, inferiority, bitterness, nastiness, bigotry, hypocrisy, you name it, they cannot stand him, they revile his homosexuality and his freedom, yet they congregate to fulminate, to vituperate and vitiate the atmosphere of free human expression.
Mostly, they are religious fanatics of no scholarship apart from what they have been spoon-fed, who are versed in the letter but have no spirit in themselves, hypocrites seeking validation in places where they rush to be offended, they ogle liberty but are caught in the limitations of their thinking.
Offence sates them
On one occasion, my friend posted a status where he both excoriated and baited them, they came in droves to drink their poison, to which I wondered why anyone would choose to seek where to have their sensibilities offended when there are other places to have salubrious engagement with like-minded people, I left a barb at the end and it snared them.
I had touched a raw nerve and with that came a pack of dogs laden with abuse and invective. It became funny and pitiful and they railed and cursed with reckless abandon. Poorly written sentences and much else, I decided to deliver a rebuke in a language they hopefully will understand or seek someone to interpret this for them because a few appeared to be of the Yoruba tribe.
So as not to be misunderstood, I wrote with the exigency and scrupulousness of diacritical marks and accents, quite necessary for remove ambiguity from clear intent.
A ticking off
Ọ̀rọ tí ta wọ́n lára, wọ́n ti yẹ̀kẹ́ èébú. M'bá ti só fún wọn kí wọ́n lọ sílé lọ gbèsì wá, ùgbọ́n ọmọ àbíìkọ́ niwọ́n, wọn ò lágbà nílé láti gbẹ̀kọ́. Àwọn mọ̀lẹ́bí adití ajá tí ò lè gbóhùn olúwa rẹ̀ mọ́.
This translates to - "I had touched a raw nerve that they have now become abusive. I would have suggested they seek homely advice before responding to me, but they are unschooled and have no mentoring guidance from home to have had the benefit of any good manners. They are a horde of deaf dogs completely oblivious to the master's voice."
The context carries best in Yoruba and if any of them had any gumption, the very least that should result from their reading this is to reflect on themselves with an utter sense of shame.

Monday, 3 November 2014

#WhatDoesBHWant Discussion with @ContactSalkida

Ahmad Salkida, a knowledge expert on Boko Haram shared his insights on the Boko Haram ideology, activities, financing and recruiting effort on a Twitter discussion forum with the hashtag #WhatDoesBHWant on Saturday the 1st of November 2014 for 2 hours.
The session was moderated by Dr. Jibrin Ibrahim and Akin Akintayo, the full timeline of what Ahmad Salkida said appears below and I have added some notes to highlight some of the points he made.

Wednesday, 29 October 2014

#WhatDoesBHWant? A Q&A with @ContactSalkida about #BokoHaram - 01/11/14 at 8:00PM

8:00PM on Saturday 1st November 2014 – Nigerian time.
The plan
Dr. Jibrin Ibrahim and Akin Akintayo have been invited to moderate a Q&A session with Ahmad Salkida about Boko Haram, its ideology, its operations, the violent onslaught and other difficult to understand activities of the sect.
Boko Haram is crudely translated to ‘Western Education is forbidden’ and officially known as Jama'atu Ahlis Sunna Lidda'Awati Wal-Jihad (People Committed to the Prophet's Teachings for Propagation and Jihad).
To many of us, what Boko Haram does is just purely unfathomable madness, yet, I would suggest that for centuries we never understood what madness was, what caused it, why people were affected and what impact it had on people society would suggest are mad.
Explaining the madness
With the development of psychiatry and psychology, we have a better understanding of madness, or rather mental illness and in some cases medicine and therapy has provided the means to manage it and probably suppress the very lunatic episodes.
With that thinking borne in mind, I want to opine that Ahmad Salkida who has written extensively about Boko Haram is like our psychiatrist, the expert who can explain the madness that appears to drive Boko Haram and bring some understanding to the issues that hopefully would help us contain and probably neutralise the menacing and marauding activities of Boko Haram.
Our frustrations
Going into the 7th month, the Chibok Girls are still in captivity, the #BringBackOurGirls movement is unrelenting in their protests, carnage has destroyed life and property, states have been under a State of Emergency for over a year and yet, Boko Haram seems to run writ large on Nigerian sovereign territory.
With every engagement with the Nigerian armed forces, we are left us none the wiser about who is winning, who is losing, what agreements have been reached if a ceasefire exists and whether there is any justice or peace at the end of all this.
Ahmad Salkida will bring some insight and hopefully some enlightenment in this objective forum, and this is something we need within the turmoil of confusion and uncertainty about terrorism in Nigeria.
The discussion is embedded below, within the blog.
In offering to moderate this Q&A session, these are the ground rules.
1.   The Q&A session will kick off at 20:00 hours on Saturday the 1st of November 2014 – Nigerian time, which is 19:00 GMT.
2.   All questions should be in clear and plain English and must use the hashtag #WhatDoesBHWant
3.    Every enquirer must exercise the best of manners - be civil, be polite, be respectful and be friendly.
4.    Every Question must be in the context of learning and understanding #WhatDoesBHWant, we will not digress from that mandate to tackle distractions.
5.   Questions that attempt to excite passions and display personal animus will be ignored, the Q&A is NOT a forum to score points or settle scores.
6.   We all have every reason to direct our anger at Boko Haram, however, Ahmad Salkida is NOT a member of Boko Haram, he is a knowledge expert and he has offered to share his knowledge and insights with us out of good faith.
7.    No abuse or aggression will be tolerated during this Q&A session, all frustrations must be tempered with the utmost self-control.
8.   We would try to have as many questions answered as possible, there can be follow on questions, but we would not revisit questions that have already been answered. At the end of the Q&A session, the conversation will be Storified and published for people to review for posterity.
We hope that all well-meaning Nigerians would participate in this discussion in patriotic good faith and we can all come away wiser and more understanding of what we need to do to end the problems that Boko Haram exacerbates on Nigeria and its neighbours.
Thank you.
Further Reading
Nigerian reporter threatened over Boko Haram coverage [Committee to Protect Journalists – March 2012]
Another Look At The Boko Haram Philosophy- Ahmad Salkida [Peace and Collaborative Development Network – November 2012]


Saturday, 7 September 2013

Nigeria: The advent of our Dark Ages is upon us

The life of a discussion
A discussion on Twitter has a tendency to grow legs and we wander off to places that could obfuscate or bring more clarity to issues sometimes forgetting how we ended up where we are.
One such discussion started off when I wrote about the particular, the case of Senator Sani Yerima’s daughter being married off at the age of 16 with a particular focus on advocacy and activism for the education of the girlchild. [AkinBlog]
Much as I thought my points were so clearly made, I ended up in a discussion where some took a contrarian view more towards extrapolation, generalisation and indifference.
Idealism absent of realism
However, what struck me was the view that Nigeria needs a radical reorientation, and there is no doubt that the citizenry need greater awareness of their place in Nigeria, the direction we want the country to move in and that should hopefully extend to how we choose our leaders, the way policy is formulated and maybe some progress towards realising the potential Nigeria always had but never exploited.
We then ended in the argument and counterargument of who was being idealist and who was being a realist. Whilst I could be either, depending on the perspective of an issue, I do always hope that I have the ability to see more than the obvious and think beyond the things that could inform my bias and prejudices, I hope I am more of a pragmatist.
Though the issue of the reorientation of Nigerians is critical, I am of the view that it is not something that can be realised in the short term, a view I do not think my assailants shared, which could leave them sitting on the bench of the idealist far removed from the reality that in a population of over 160 million with the issues to do to leadership, religion, tribalism, education, health, politics and corruption, this concept called Nigeria is one massive ocean liner than cannot be manoeuvred like a racing car.
Nothing in the horizon for change
Much as the views of a Tim Newman who made insightful observations of Nigeria and Nigerians after a stint as an oil industry professional might put us on the defensive, there is no doubt that along with those in leadership today, there does not seem crop of Nigerians that could be randomly picked from any walk of life with the wherewithal to act any differently from the brigandage in power and that is looking down generations to come already. [Sahara Reporters]
Teju Cole, an author and insightful commentator on issues Nigerian and African in a recent interview said he was more interested in African realism than African Optimism. [Africa Book Club]
I have many a time commented on the fact that we seem to exhibit such vacuous optimism in expectation of sudden miracles fuelled by heightened hopes for the impossible that the reasonable will find improbable and the rational might just ridicule as foolish that we are left with two traits that Lord Lugard observed of us as far back as 1922 in his book, the Dual Mandate, when he said – “Perhaps the two traits which have impressed me as those most characteristic of the African native are his lack of apprehension and his lack of ability to visualize the future.” [AkinBlog]
Our Dark Ages have begun
It was in a discussion last night that all these thoughts came together when @cchukudebelu said to me on Twitter – ‘You know how the "Dark Ages" destroyed European society - something similar is happening in Nigeria.’ [Twitter]
The penny dropped, because this seemed to define the gradual decline of Nigeria in all facets of societal, economic, social, religious, political and infrastructural needs of our dear country. This has been going on for over a generation and it will not be turned around anytime soon, though we can start the journey to a new future from today if the will and the wherewithal exists for such to happen
A long hard look at ourselves would indicate, we are complacently and recklessly descending into Armageddon with the brakes having failed, and the country in the hands of an unconscionable kakistocracy bent on retaining power at any cost with the man in charge not giving a damn about the consequences.
Our claims have been disclaimed
The honest truth is that 2015 provides no year of the Messiah and whilst we pine and wait in vain for deliverance coming for somewhere besides ourselves we will simply be chroniclers of the advent of our version of the Dark Ages, it will be left to history to judge if we have been benevolent, treacherous or indifferent with the legacy of a nation bequeathed to us by our founding fathers.
On the 1st of October, 1960, this is what Prime Minister Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa said, “So that we find ourselves today being tested to the utmost, we are called upon immediately to show that our claims to responsible government are well-founded, and having been accepted as an independent state we must at once play an active part in maintaining the peace of the world and in preserving civilisation. I promise you, we shall not fail for want of determination.” [AkinBlog]
It goes without saying that our claims to responsible government have been found wanting and we have failed with every determination and opportunity presented to bring Nigeria round to the vision, optimism and hope that greeted our independence and our people when we stood as a nation ready to take its place in the commonwealth of our global humanity.
Knowing the context of our Dark Ages
Lest we be at a loss as to what the Dark Ages means, the following dictionary definitions should help us understand the task we have ahead of us, that it would be step changes, little alterations, tinkering and activism on a whole range of little issues that could create great impact that will be the parts from which a sum and product of total reorientation will emerge – there is no telling which generation in the near or distant future will really see the Nigeria we have yearned for all our lives, for those before us and those that come after us.
Dark Ages [The Free Dictionary]
An era of ignorance, superstition, or social chaos or repression.
The early or crude stage in the history or development of something.
The entire Middle Ages, especially when viewed as a troubled period marked by the loss of classical learning.
There is plenty of ignorance to go round as there is atrocious superstition, with social chaos and repression in Nigeria today and whether we are learning anything new to bring about change is as debatable as it can be until the world comes to an end.
Encapsulating Tweets
These series of Tweets I posted will help close this discussion.
@DoubleEph It suddenly dawns on you that Nigeria has a generational societal burden that we believe will dissipate with good 2015 elections.
It took the description "Dark Ages" by @cchukudebelu for me to confirm Nigeria is in a generational rut with no turnaround in sight.
There is no new leadership in the waiting that suggests Nigeria is on the cusp for radical and generational change.
I fear that we might just be chroniclers of Nigeria's descent into total anarchy with the kind of leadership we have.
We are so apart from the ideal we seek and the cohesion necessary to give Nigeria a heading towards it.
Whilst Nigeria is not a lost cause there is little reason for great optimism in the quagmire of our stark realities.
We have become the passengers of the times, whether history will judge us as benevolent or treacherous is another thing.
@kayodebakre8 We constantly make the mistake that a Messiah exists that we overlook other potentially able leadership.@KwamiAdadevoh
I fear that what appears in the current Nigerian intellectual is the adulation of people, the revising of event and very little in ideas.
Welcome to the advent of Nigeria’s Dark Ages.


Tuesday, 21 May 2013

Thought Picnic: My Interview Weaknesses


Interviews are not the same
We all interview in very different ways depending on the situation, the circumstance and the opportunity. In my case, interviews have straddled the spectrum of a grilling interrogation to a friendly discussion sometimes without a definitive inkling as to whether I will be considered suitable for the role or not.
It is not easy to determine what to expect at an interview and when it is not face-to-face, it is more difficult to project oneself as well especially where a question presents a difficulty in coming up with clear answers.
My lacking in ability
Whilst I am fine with telephone interviews, I will only attend a Skype interview without the video element, though I can remember about 14 years ago where I attended an interview at a recruitment agent’s office, it was recorded on video and sent to panel working for the employers where current employees voted on who they liked and that determined eligibility.
Recently, I have noticed that I am not that good at core technical narratives, much as I have been doing what I do for over a decade, I fully understand the workings and the innards but the hypothetical scenarios I get given at interview leave me wanting for expression and jargon, I am almost tongue-tied.
Planning ahead of typical troubles
Another disadvantage I seem to have had comes from not experiencing some of the issues that come up in questions I have to answer, it was interesting when the interviewer said on reflection that I probably take time to plan out and capture as much as I can of the situation before I design and implement solutions – I end up with fewer management and critical issues and by reason of that, I am probably not as tested as those who have to fight fires daily because of unforeseen issues and much else.
Where one is engaged to design from scratch, one is at an advantage but in situations where one is to maintain an existing but flawed deployment solution change might be difficult to instigate and implement for more political than technical reasons.
Swotting to swat the quiz
I find I still have to learn to exude to the level that I know to do in a practical setting; reading gives words to the actions I have literally learnt to perfect, creating scenarios and painstakingly working through each to some working conclusion creates consistent workflow processes that I hope I will find words to express when asked at interview.
Most pertinently, I rarely attempt to reinvent the wheel, so many have travelled the roads I travel and have documented hard-won lessons that come in handy every time, I am grateful to them because it usually means, if I know what to look for, I will find a clue, a pointer, a thinking, a process, an implementation or a solution that I can adapt and use to perfect the imperfect situation I am facing.
Books still matter
Sometimes, that is simply what an expert is, not the person who can give a good talk but the person who understands the general problem and knows how to seek out solutions that work.
Meanwhile, back to the books, there is much theory to refresh until it becomes the Shibboleth of interview success.

Sunday, 24 December 2006

A milestone coded in Java

It is all done
I now found the heart and mind to make my own coffee from a brew of Java beans, this was the last academic module which had to be fulfilled before I could start my thesis.
The chapter closed yesterday as I struggled to make a program do wild things as applets in a browser, it all worked out fine in the end.
Eight modules, with a minimum of 30 hours of study, where the advisory recommended at least 15.
To many breaks were taken but that is because of the nature of my work and the way I have financed the project, but I have learnt a lot and I would miss the fun of Discussion Questions, Discussion Follow-ons, Assignments, Project and other kinds of online interaction.
The most important lesson I learnt during the program was first to be relevant amongst your peers, then, you have to strive with yourself to excel- it is not competition, but what is worth doing at all, is really worth doing well.
Now, to my dissertation in January, having been utterly asocial, seeking hotel rooms with wireless connectivity and not relenting, being a host without a boast and many more deprivations, a well deserved rest beckons – in temperate Gran Canaria for Christmas.
To all my friends, fans, well-wishers and detractors – A Merry Christmas.