The Art of Communication
The art of
communication is one that should never be left without nurture. It is a skill I
have honed since childhood, when making myself heard, and hopefully understood,
mattered.
I know the many times
in my working life when being articulate, honest, truthful, clear, and detailed
about ideas, events, or situations has been the difference between staying put
and being walked out of the door with alacrity.
Conflict and the
Power of Words
Conflict leers around
the office or the workplace, where genuine engagement can easily slide into
belittlement and being patronised. Both could be mistaken for compliments, only
to be turned into something backhanded or used to upbraid you.
Besides that, there
are the power plays and egos, where choosing your words carefully can
significantly change the tone of an exchange. Drawing on a wealth of vocabulary
with studied deployment is hardly putting the quality of your education to
waste.
Finding the Right
Analogy
When the going gets
tough, and it usually does, finding the correct analogy to depict a situation
becomes the best tool to deploy.
Consider a scenario
where a user expected us to exhaust every avenue to determine why his
anticipated long-running script terminated after two hours, even though nothing
on the system had changed.
I posited that when a
washing machine does not complete a wash cycle, you explore issues with the
device, the water supply, or the connection to the mains; you do not ask for a
building inspection.
That thought came to
me as I finished taking a shower.
A Managerial and
Political Issue
This afternoon, I was
met with a complex managerial and political issue. For all my protestations
about the guidelines, framework, and structure needed to govern a process that
I felt left us exposed, all management wanted was for us to do something, anything,
first, before addressing concerns that would fill reams of paper dating back to
July last year.
After I had answered
a series of questions, the activity was cherry-picked out of a larger case for
correct procedure and directed towards a decision to be enforced.
In what I could only
term a dare to challenge authority and face the consequences of stepping out of
line, the manager, now assuming control where earlier they had failed to
provide support, asked on the Microsoft Teams group chat:
The Challenge on
Teams
"Everyone,
anyone here unhappy with the approach?"
He might as well have
said, "Anyone up for a fight? I'm here to bludgeon you."
I was dissatisfied,
but this required tact, and there came the inspiration for another analogy.
The Bricklayer
Analogy
"To put it
another way, we are the bricklayers, and you want a house for which no
architect has been engaged to design and no structural engineer has assessed.
We are just putting brick on brick and hoping we end up with a shelter everyone
can use."
As bricklayers, we
know what houses should look like, but without a plan, a lot can go wrong. My
job is to paint the picture; how you appreciate that work of art is beyond my
ability to dictate, but the work has been done.
It will sink in
somehow, and the message will not be lost in the morass of politicking and
power plays.
Eloquence as
Construction, Not Evasion
Let me be clear about
one thing: eloquence here is not a tool of evasiveness. It is the means by
which I explain and construct a clear narrative of the risk profile of an
activity, one that could lead to penalties, the loss of professional
reputation, or a negative impact on business operations and the user community.
Knowledge shared
through such communication exposes the blind spots and pitfalls that are
usually not taken into consideration.
Nor is this a matter
of perfecting a process. There is no process. What we have is a range of
assumptions that have not been properly tested or validated, yet are forced
into implementation by expediency.
There is a further
purpose to all this. By communicating in this way, one is also documenting the
issues, so that when the matter of responsibility for any action arises, the
points made earlier will show that management was informed and chose to act
against the identified risks they had been asked to appreciate.
Experience Speaks for
Itself
Many of us might hold junior roles in the multilayered hierarchy of the organisation, but never confuse our positions with a lack of maturity.
After 40 years in this business,
where this is probably one of the least significant roles I have held in 30 years,
I think I know a fair amount about management, and about being managed, and
about getting a point across without equivocation.
We didn't just start
at this yesterday.
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