Friday, 4 October 2013

England: They will not go unpunished

We will punish
Repeatedly, as my heart bled with anguish and horror at the news of little children that died at the hands of their parents, I was never fully satisfied with the justice that punished the horrors, but it was justice all the same.
Today, it was the turn of Amanda Hutton to go to jail, for the death of 4-year old Hamzah Khan, who she cruelly starved to death and then left mummified in his cot for nearly two years.
For her cruelty charged as manslaughter, child cruelty and preventing the lawful burial of a child, she will go to jail for 15 years and that can never be long enough for the harrowing, reprehensible and disgraceful circumstances that greeting the dying days of Hamzah that could have been for years.
Placing the responsibility right
There is no way to fully understand why a mother could be so evil beyond words having altogether had six children, the oldest of which is 24 years old who received a suspended sentence of 2 years for preventing the burial of his brother.
I am glad that the findings did not give her a bye on the possibility of diminished responsibility, but held her responsible fully for the heinous crimes against her son.
Rights even in death
As with Victoria ClimbiƩ, Peter Connelly (Baby P), Daniel Pelka and the 6 Philpott children who perished in a fire set by their own parents, we as a society will not stand for the abuse of children by their parents and guardians, and though we might have failed to prevent their abuse, we will not fail in punishing the perpetrators.
Each face and name is testament that these children, even if not precious and beautiful in the eyes of the people we expect to unconditionally love them, they have a right to have a voice for justice in the hope that less of this becomes the regular news of our times.
Lawful burials
We must have lessons to learn of these events for early intervention where abuse is suspected and for more intrusive official enquiry where a child appears to be in danger.
I never knew there was a crime of preventing the lawful burial of the dead – an unusual crime, in fact, I take that back; the heir to the Tetrapak fortune, Hans Kristian Rausing, was charged with that crime in 2012 for not burying his wife who had been dead for months.
May the souls of those dear children rest in peace; I do hope no other child is suffering today like these have suffered before.


Thursday, 3 October 2013

Nigeria: Broken news and integrity deficit

The news of old habits
Tragedy struck the grieving and compounded their anguish this morning as there was an air crash in Lagos, Nigeria.
Social media was set alight with news of the event and as more people contributed, rumour, speculation, conjecture and controversy gained more readership for apparently non-existent facts.
Twitter is like a wildfire, what it takes is two clicks of the mouse button or a tap on your trusty tablet device and you propagate a falsehood and inexactitude or 140 characters to manufacture the news about something you know little about.
Such disasters leave no allowance for cool and measured engagement; many want to feature as news breakers and there the flux of traffic obfuscates the reality of the event.
Derelict and irresponsible
These are times when one expects professional news media to arrest the descent to fable, fiction and feeding frenzy of recognition at the expense of the unfortunate – one cannot say the state media have acquitted themselves well in this regard as lies usurp the throne of facts for popularity and effect.
We should always temper our curiosity with discrimination and discernment; we should be smart about where we allow ourselves to be led down in search for the truth.
Only when I am in it
In my view, the only time I want to be breaking the news is if I am making the news or part of the news event. Whilst scoops can make you famous, when such broken news is debunked or proved false you risk greater infamy.
When an event happens in Nigeria, it is very likely that the village-rag gossip websites will pick it up first without verification or corroboration, maybe some do exert themselves to a modicum of excellence but I do not consider them authoritative enough for me to stake my reputation and my integrity on giving their copy a platform.
The platforms we trust
We have mainstream Nigerian news media; I wait for their despatches and reports by their correspondents, though the foreign media appears to get the goods first. Even as the local outfits are slow in getting the news out and might even get it wrong, on balance they are at greater reputational risk as professionals than I am as a consumer and disseminator of their material.
Meanwhile, misinformation devoid of humanity, nuance, restraint or decorum rolls through our timelines ever tempting us to engage with increasing rage at the calumny of others.
In the midst of this is the guerrilla news agency, those who publish pieces the mainstream media are scared to touch, they sometimes do not have corroborated sources but they stimulate debate, get people talking and have others asking questions.
The patronage system in Nigeria makes this vehicle essential even though those with ulterior motives to disseminate falsehoods and fallacies at times abuse that platform – they are unavoidable against greater odds.
Opinions are free, we can wait
It is not a case of being wise after the fact; we have every opportunity to share our opinions about the event when the news has truly broken with the facts and other investigatory evidence that would include detail and specifics.
When it comes to breaking news, I can wait, I can wait to understand what is really happening, I can wait to appreciate what really happened, I can wait to hear the truth, the facts, the reality and the reports of those directly affected.
Don’t give in
Anxiety will not help situations much as urgency does not mean you can do anything with the information once obtained, I do not want to insert myself into anyone’s moment be it the news, the success or the tragedy, it is the gentlemanly thing to patiently elicit fact from fiction and only be present to propagate the truthful and the verified.
If you are unsure, do not be a purveyor; if in doubt, leave in out; if you are not the source be sure you do not present yourself as authoritatively the oracle and fount of wisdom from whom all knowledge can be sought.
Please think before you join the crowd of rumourmongers.


Hospital: My body is not an experiment

Hospital in a jiffy
Life punctuated by landmarks and appointments, a longing to be seen and cared for when discomfort sets in.
A week had passed before heightened concerns were enough to call the hospital for an emergency appointment.
At my last meeting with the consultant, took me off a prophylactic regime with the hope that a condition I once had will no more reoccur. Whilst I was a bit sceptical, I did not challenge that premise but allowed that decision to stand.
Over the detail again
The discomfort was becoming unbearable, I could not wait for my next consultant appointment to address it, and so once again, I was telling the stories of medicaments and reactions to another new face.
I am already too aware of my medical history, I have good knowledge of the blood work and I have to align that with my state of mind.
My view was that whilst a therapeutic approach might grant immediate relief, it could easily be temporary and we could find ourselves reviewing this matter again without consideration of the fact that I am beginning to look like a trial and error experiment.
For now or for longer
For what I know about myself, there are certain issues that have responded well to therapeutic intervention but others that require my sometimes-stressed immune system to battle for supremacy require prophylaxis and I am happy to carry that course of intervention until such a time that my blood work indicates a clear reduction of risk.
With that sorted, it was then a matter of dosage, the duration of intense intervention before settling down to prophylaxis.
My body first
I intend to maintain some control on the regimens I undergo stressing the importance for my new consultants to have a long and studied view of my medical situation before they begin to alter any of the prescriptions I have comfortably managed over the last 4 years.
This is not to exert medical primacy which is their field of expertise, but we cannot ignore the fact that it is always my body first before it is an object of research, analysis, conjecture or decision usually based on their observations and diagnosis, but needful of my consent and acquiescence on any course of action after that.
After a 40-minute wait for my prescription at the pharmacy, I realised one thing that remains constant is my date of birth – how uncanny.


Wednesday, 2 October 2013

Thought Picnic: Challenging your destiny

It is not set in stone
As I watched television this evening, the NCIS episode came to an end and just before the credits rolled, I heard the words below:
Anyone can achieve their fullest potential, who we are might be predetermined, but the path we follow is always of our own choosing. We should never allow our fears or the expectations of others to set the frontiers of our destiny. Your destiny cannot be changed, but it can be challenged. Every man is born as many men and dies as a single one.” - Martin Heidegger [Quotes]
This quote is complete as written and it provides ample material for meditation. What really jumped out at me from these words was this - Your destiny cannot be changed, but it can be challenged.
Under constant review
I presume we probably will never get a full vision or description of our destinies, but we are constantly challenging where we are for re-evaluation, reassessment, readjustment and realignment.
As we find that old ideas and tricks lose their efficacy in tackling new challenges, we must find the resource and means to reinvent ourselves, renew our minds, reform our perspectives and recognise the need to change.
Overcoming issues
This constant work of rediscovery and self-discovery is the wonder of our evolutionary growth in life and many other endeavours; we must however carry the greatest responsibility to discover where your intellectual arrogance is causing disabling ignorance and do well to overcome it, this is advice that Peter Drucker gave on the matter of managing oneself.
We all need to take the time out to manage our expectations and our reality whilst charting a course to new goals and for greater achievement. It is a challenge, and it is fun.


Walsall: A place from my past

Connecting with a past
One week in July, I decided to make a journey to a place I first saw when I was born, then last went to some 18 years ago.
I have an affinity for Walsall for so many reasons, many childhood memories and even though it is possible my early birth was consequent on the stress of my parents moving house just two days before from London, it just presents a sense of exclusiveness that one was not born in London.
For the way Walsall is pronounced, many confuse it with Warsaw but I was not born in Poland and hence I have to tell people it is near Birmingham if they know nothing about the geography of England, West Midlands or the Black Country.
Seeking ghosts of the past
However, as I arrived in Walsall, I thought I would try to trace a family I once knew. Her kid sister always took me boating at to the Arboretum, she, the big sister was married to a family friend and they had two girls who I last saw in 1978 in Nigeria before they separated and she returned to the United Kingdom with her girls soon after.
Searching through registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages, with just the knowledge of the name of the family friend who was married in England, I was able to obtain the maiden name of the sisters, then their dates of birth, the second marriage of the elder sister and then the trail ran cold.
The pleasures of the past
For the week I was in Walsall, I visited the places where we lived; all still standing buildings saved for posterity whilst on the other side of the road, the old row of houses had been demolished and replaced with new buildings.
One place I wanted to see was the Arboretum, it had a boating lake and I remember beaching my boat the last time I was there, but when I got there, it was quiet, no boats and the only life on the water were ducks and swans.
Apart from being a park and conservation area, a place to probably meditate, what made the Walsall Arboretum fun had been taken out of the place because some years ago a boater fell in the lake and drowned.
A boating tradition of decades going back in my memory to the 1960s of the enjoyment of life and happiness ended by reason of an unfortunate incident before the health superintendents waded in and decided this simple pastime was unsafe.
Holding back the day with the past
My view was erect a memorial for the dead, put up signs and warnings but do not take away the pleasure, though it is suggested the mismanagement of the place and insufficient funds might have been the death knell for that kind of excitement.
I walked around the park, took many pictures but the idyll that Walsall once represented was no more what I saw, I was saddened and crestfallen but the desire still remains to be laid to rest in the town of my birth.
Places change, people move on, history becomes a series of yesterdays stretching back in time and the moment is what we have to enjoy what is there, Walsall remains dear to me and the memories I have of the place might fade but will never be forgotten.
The kid sister who at times was baby sitter, chaperone, governess and big sister has a name that exemplified the enchanted childhood – Joy!
Thank you, Walsall.
My Walsall Slideshow.


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Tuesday, 1 October 2013

Blogging: Why You Should Blog

Why you should blog
Recently, I have found myself telling people I interact with on Facebook and on Twitter to start a blog. I feel this is important because the structure of status updates on either Facebook or Twitter along with many other social media forums do not lend themselves to proper documentation, archiving, referencing or access.
Now, there are aggregator tools like Storify that allow you to pool the sets of thoughts that are posted on many social media forums, but the kind of thinking that informs social media postings is quite different from that which goes into writing a freeform blog.
It is fun to do
As I complete 10 years of blogging in December 2013 and look back at over 2,000 blogs, I can say I have a large Internet footprint that represents my views about life, social issues, political commentary, opinions, history and the occasional levity.
A blog is easy to create, my blogs, both personal and professional are hosted by Google’s Blogger, but accessible with domains I have purchased, though you do not need to have a domain at the onset, others use WordPress, Tumblr, TypePad and many other blog hosting platforms. [Best Blogging Platforms]
You have a story
The most simplistic advice I give about blogging is, everyone has a view, a perspective, a story and a life, usually made interesting by the voice we give to the experiences we have had – a blog is whom you are, where you are, how you feel and the way that situation affects you.
That could easily be four sentences every day, every other day, or every week, it all depends on how you are inspired, and it is not hard. As you develop the blogging skill, you can begin to touch on topical issues, research, opinion and begin to project as an authority on issues.
Your space, your face
Your blog is your space, you have control over what you have written, you can constantly return to review, refine, update and manage what you put out there and it is a reference point for others to visit and learn more of you in a space that you control.
However, the advice I share the most with those who want to blog is this – a blog should be written with the sense of a seamstress making a good skirt, it should be short enough to keep the interest, but long enough to cover the detail.


Nigeria: Of Promise and Of Possibility

Emotions for Nigeria
For the past few years, I have looked for ways to celebrate Nigeria’s Independence Day on my blog, usually looking from the promise that the 1st of October, 1960 offered, best exemplified in the words of the speech Prime Minister Sir Abubakar Tafawa Balewa made to Nigerians on the day Nigeria gained sovereignty from British rule.
Each time I read the speech, I am moved with emotion thought it happened before I was born, I find myself filled with excitement and longing, hope and encouragement, promise and determination that Nigeria is ready to take her place in the Commonwealth of Nations and prove herself in potential, ability and purpose.
Our current reality
At her 53rd Independence Day, today, I am no less overcome with emotion about the place called Nigeria. She never reached the mission or attained that vision of 1960, for, before the decade was over, the man who dreamt of a new Nigeria in that speech was long dead, two bloody coups followed by a civil war had gutted the country, and much else has become our interesting and turbulent history.
However, today, we have to juxtapose the promise of 1960 with the reality of Nigeria in 2013, for reflection and possible opportunity. For regardless of whether we have our snouts in the trough, or we are embittered from being denied access to power, maybe independent of either elite pressure group or just an ordinary Nigerian, we seek a better country, a vibrant united country, bound together in common purpose, prosperous, thriving and truly sovereign – close to the dreams of the first day.
To reflect on a dream and a possibility
Below, I excerpt parts of speeches given in 1960 and 2013 by leaders of our country in the different times Sir Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa’s speech is fully sourced from Dawodu.com and the President Goodluck Jonathan’s speech is published by the Vanguard News Nigeria – I acknowledge their original publications fully.
This is what strikes me the most in that first Independence Day speech:
We are called upon immediately to show that our claims to responsible government are well-founded, and having been accepted as an independent state we must at once play an active part in maintaining the peace of the world and in preserving civilisation. I promise you, we shall not fail for want of determination.” [Dawodu.com – Reproduced below.]
In the speech given by President Goodluck Jonathan for our 53rd Independence Day, I take two parts quite close together in the sixth and seventh paragraphs to represent our reality:
I admit that these may not be the best of times for our nation. Our people are divided in many ways – ethnically, religiously, politically, and materially.
Our collective national journey has witnessed great watersheds, thanks to our spirit of endurance, perseverance and sacrifice. Getting the rest of the job done with determination and courage is just a matter of time. We are Nigerians, a nation of talented people, endowed with resources, potentials, and Divine Grace.” [Read the full speech at Vanguard News Nigeria]
My blogs for Nigerian Independence Days
Prime Minister Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa’s Independence Address to Nigerians
TODAY is Independence Day. The First of October 1960 is a date to which for two years every Nigerian has been eagerly looking forward. At last, our great day has arrived, and Nigeria is now indeed an independent sovereign nation.
Words cannot adequately express my joy and pride at being the Nigerian citizen privileged to accept from Her Royal Highness these Constitutional Instruments, which are the symbols of Nigeria's independence. It is a unique privilege, which I shall remember forever, and it gives me strength and courage as I dedicate my life to the service of our country.
This is a wonderful day, and it is all the more wonderful because we have awaited it with increasing impatience compelled to watch one country after another overtaking us on the road when we had so nearly reached our goal. But now we have acquired our rightful status and I feel sure that history will show that the building of our nation proceeded at the wisest pace: It has been thorough, and Nigeria now stands well built upon firm foundations.
Today's ceremony marks the culmination of a process, which began fifteen years ago and has now reached a happy and successful conclusion. It is with justifiable pride that we claim the achievement of our Independence to be unparalleled in the annals of history. Each step of our constitutional advance has been purposefully and peacefully planned with full and open consultation between representatives of all the various interests in Nigeria but in harmonious co-operation with the administering power, which has today relinquished its authority.
At the time when our constitutional development entered upon its final phase, the emphasis was largely upon self-government. We, the elected representatives of the people of Nigeria, concentrated on proving that we were fully capable of managing our own affairs both internally and as a nation.
However, we were not to be allowed the selfish luxury of focusing our own interest on our own homes. In these days of rapid communications, we cannot live in isolation, apart from the rest of the world, even if we wished to do so. All too soon, it has become evident that for us Independence implies a great deal more than self-government. This great country, which has now emerged without bitterness or bloodshed, finds that she must at once be ready to deal with grave international issues.
This fact has of recent months been unhappily emphasised by the startling events, which have occurred in this continent. I shall not labour the point but it would be unrealistic not to draw attention first to the awe-inspiring task confronting us at the very start of our nationhood. When this day in October 1960 was chosen for our independence, it seemed that we were destined to move with quiet dignity to our place on the world stage.
Recent events have changed the scene beyond recognition. So that we find ourselves today being tested to the utmost, we are called upon immediately to show that our claims to responsible government are well-founded, and having been accepted as an independent state we must at once play an active part in maintaining the peace of the world and in preserving civilisation. I promise you, we shall not fail for want of determination.
And we come to this task better-equipped than many. For this, I pay tribute to the manner in which successive British governments have gradually transferred the burden of responsibility to our shoulders. The assistance and unfailing encouragement, which we have received from each secretary of state for the colonies and their intense personal interest in our development, has immeasurably lightened that burden.
All our friends in the colonial office must today be proud of their handiwork and in the knowledge that they have helped to lay the foundations of a lasting friendship between our two nations. I have indeed every confidence that based on the happy experience of successful partnership; our future relations with the United Kingdom will be more cordial than ever, bound together, as we shall be in the Commonwealth, by a common allegiance to her Majesty Queen Elizabeth, whom today we proudly acclaim as Queen of Nigeria and Head of the Commonwealth.
Time will not permit the individual mention of all those friends, many of them Nigerians, whose selfless labour has contributed to our independence. Some have not lived to see the fulfilment of their hopes - on them be peace - but nevertheless they are remembered here, and the names of buildings and streets and roads and bridges throughout the country recall to our minds their achievements, some of them on a national scale. Other confined, perhaps, to a small area in one division, are more humble but of equal value in the sum total.
Today, we have with us representatives of those who have made Nigeria Representatives of the Regional governments, of former Central Governments, of the Missionary Societies, and of the banking and commercial enterprises, and members, both past and present, of the public service. We welcome you, and we rejoice that you have been able to come and share in our celebrations.
We wish that it could have been possible for all of those whom you represent to be here today. Many, I know, will be disappointed to be absent, but if they are listening to me now, I say to them: Thank you on behalf of my countrymen. Thank you for your devoted service, which helped to build up Nigeria into a nation. Today we are reaping the harvest, which you have sowed, and the quality of the harvest is equalled only by our gratitude to you. May God bless you all.
This is an occasion when our hearts are filled with conflicting emotions: we are, indeed, proud to have achieved our independence, and proud that our efforts should have contributed to this happy event. But do not mistake our pride for arrogance.
It is tempered by feelings of sincere gratitude to all who have shared in the task of developing Nigeria politically, socially, and economically. We are grateful to the British officers whom we have known, first as masters, and then as leaders, and finally as partners, but always as friends.
And there have been countless missionaries who have laboured unceasingly in the cause of education and to whom we owe many of our medical services. We are grateful also to those who have brought modern methods of banking and of commerce, and new industries. I wish to pay tribute to all of these people and to declare our everlasting admiration of their devotion to duty.
And finally, I must express our gratitude to her Royal Highness the Princess Alexandra of Kent for personally bringing to us these symbols of our freedom, and especially for delivering the gracious message from her Majesty, The Queen. And so, with God save our Queen, I open a new chapter in the history of Nigeria, and of the Commonwealth, and indeed of the world.
Courtesy of Dawodu.com