Thursday, 8 January 2026

Men's things XXIX: The Cubicle Next Door

An Uncomfortable Observation

Yesterday afternoon, I went to the Gents, where we have cubicles and no urinals. Next to mine, someone had entered, taking the standing stance. To my hearing, the stream continued for a considerable length of time, with different rates of flow.

This might have been an opportunity to talk to a stranger about "men's things". It may not be anything serious, but every indication suggested it should be checked out. When he emerged from the cubicle as I was leaving, it was a middle-aged white man.

Again, I felt no particular urgency comes with screening white men for prostate gland issues. When anything is caught, if it is cancer-related, it is often at a late stage. As an Englishman, I am wont to mind my own business, but is that a good enough excuse when you suspect there might be an issue with a stranger's urinary habits that might portend cancer?

Taking Quiet Action

Having had prostate cancer and knowing how issues with an enlarged prostate can be easily dismissed as signs of ageing or nothing of significant concern, I understand the need to educate people about prostate health. Knowing the symptoms to watch out for is important.

I have just gone down to our reception to suggest that some posters be put in the men's toilets informing them of prostate health issues. I have also received a response that the posters will be printed and put in the toilets tomorrow.

I hope that in doing this, men would become more aware of prostate health and go for check-ups if they are exhibiting any of the symptoms.

References

Blog - Men's things XXVIII: Shame, no national prostate cancer screening

Blog - Photons on the Prostate - A year from starting radiotherapy

Blog - A prostate cancer diagnosis, one year on

Blog - Men's things - Prostate Cancer blogs

Poster from Prostate Cancer UK - 1-in-8 [PDF]

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