Take me to the church by app

Have your tickets ready

In this new dispensation as the lockdown is being eased, the main event I look forward to is attending church on Sunday. We register on the Eventbrite app for the purposes of managing numbers and possible consequent tracking and tracing, if perchance this Coronavirus invades our space.

It is much easier to install the app on your mobile phone and process the free invitation there than to have it emailed to you and printed out for you to present it to the ushers on paper. On this visit, only my surname was asked for. I had first registered from the church’s Facebook page which offered the email route before I realised it was possible using an app. Thankfully, my first registration did not take up a needed space as the church itself did not appear as full as last week.

Silent day, of loud patter

I arrived quite early and took a seat in the socially distanced seating arrangement that is now the standard in church. Certain seats were labelled for family units to sit together, but most were individual seats with the programme for the liturgy already on the seat as opposed to it being handed out to us by the ushers as we arrived at the door.

For the 10 to 15 minutes before the service began, we were enveloped by stillness, a silence for which the only time it was interrupted was the sound of the footfalls of entrants or the odd irritable cough before the processional hymns was played over the loudspeakers for the procession of the clergy.

Traditions held up

Again, we did not rise to sing, we sat through the whole service except for when we participated in the sacrament of the holy communion, of which only the bread was offered with the words spoken only in the heart with reverence.

The Sung Eucharist which could stretch to just short of 2 hours, is over within the hour. Much as we were advised to promptly leave after the service, we lingered about to be acknowledged by the clergy and catch up with fellow worshippers. We do not expect the church to permanently take up this revised order of service, but for now, it is the best we can do for public worship.

Surreal as it may seem, the congregation is adapting well to some fine-tuning every week.

The Terminal

We caught up in Frankfurt after 27 years.

The Learning

Almost a fortnight ago, in the midst of the media frenzy that accompanied a blog written about me, I heard from my sister that she was about to travel to the United States. I congratulated her as she admonished me for allowing the public spectacle that followed my story.

In very stark terms, I made it clear that the decision was mine to make and the consequences, whatever they might be, were challenges to be faced as they came, all considerations taken on board.

The exchange was a bit terse but friendly, and I basically kept a low profile after that. On the Saturday following, we were in a bit of a quandary; travel agents in Nigeria were angling for their commissions at the expense of getting an affordable flight ticket. As the hours went by, the prices of the tickets were rising such that they were becoming unaffordable.

Airport choices

Meanwhile, a useful app that could provide an insider's view of flight scheduling and pricing, OnTheFly, was not available in Nigeria. I did consider transferring my frequent flyer miles to her, but there were limitations to the number of miles I could give away, and there were other restrictions on buying tickets on behalf of others outside Europe.

Her first choice would have involved a 26-hour stopover in Doha; the question then arose about what to do with a long layover at the airport if you did not have a visa to exit the terminal. The Doha Hamad International Airport has quiet rooms for a limited time at a cost. All looked tentative.

There were options for a stopover in Istanbul via Turkish Airlines, and were it not for the strictures of time, flying out of Cotonou, Benin or Lomé, Togo would have shaved almost a third off the cost of the ticket.

Trigger response

Apart from a contribution, all I could do was hope and wait for the best. As dusk approached, I received news that a flight had been booked on her behalf from the US and there was a 10-hour stopover in Frankfurt; she was flying with Lufthansa.

I didn't give it any thought when I learnt of this development, but once I told her, it dawned on me: if she were coming through Europe, I would see her. Europe is my backyard, so to speak, and so I got into planning my trip.

I requested her full itinerary, from which I could determine what terminal she would be flying into and whether she implicitly had a transit visa to stop over in Frankfurt, considering she did not have a Schengen visa (SchengenVisaInfo.com). [A lowly company apparatchik sent me an email 8 years after writing this blog to update the text reference from Schengen Visa to what it is now. Most such requests I usually ignore.]

Then I had to determine if I could traverse terminals in the airport without having to go through immigration. Having a US visa implicitly gave her transit rights through Frankfurt Airport.

Terminal woes

On my side, I normally use SkyTeam flights, but that would have landed me in the Schengen immigration control area, leaving Manchester with stopovers in either Amsterdam or Paris. The only way I could avoid this was to fly directly from a non-Schengen Area UK to Frankfurt; it meant changing airline alliances to fly Lufthansa.

Other domestic issues required me to return on the same day rather than extend my stay through the weekend as I might have done in other circumstances.

Fortuitously, I asked for the day off, booked my ticket to arrive in Frankfurt at 9:15 AM and depart at 9:45 PM, which meant I could print out both boarding passes double-sided for my outward and return journeys.

My sister would have arrived in Frankfurt at the same terminal just under 3 hours before I did. When I arrived in Frankfurt, I was told to go to the Z gates, having arrived at the B gates of Terminal 1. I boarded the SkyTrain that linked the gates and found myself at a security checkpoint.

Sheer luck

On tendering my boarding pass, after some hesitation, the teller noted that my departure would be from a Z gate. I didn't even know that, not to mention my being 12 hours early for my departure. I was let through.

I made it to the Z gates and determined my sister would leave from gate Z15. I had not seen her Facebook message, and posted an announcement to have her meet me at gate Z15. I did a quick scout around the gate without seeing her, and as the announcement went out on the tannoy, I waited at the gate whilst scanning my Facebook messages.

The reunion

'I am waiting in front of gate Z15, where are you?' I wrote. I stood looking around like a meerkat sentry. She appeared from the thick of the crowd: my sister, whom I last saw almost 27 years before. All the while, I had been unsure of how emotional I would be; there were no tears, just lots of hugging, and I was very happy.

There would have been much to catch up on, but we decided to cherish the moment instead. My other sister responded negatively from Nigeria on Facebook that she was not the one who was supposed to be meeting. Yes, we have pranksters a-plenty in the family.

We called home, had a meal, took some pictures, found a place to recline and catch a nap, and spent almost 8 hours together before I watched her board her plane and depart for the United States. By the time that was done, I checked to confirm my boarding gate; it had been changed to the B gates. What luck.

Traipsing through another security check, a couple of hours in the lounge, I was back home just before 11:00 PM. It was such an emotionally charged day that I took Friday off. Mission accomplished by the accident of fortune and the blessing of opportunity and means.

I've wanted to write this blog for days.