tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3540911873094895295.post1552720291151616541..comments2024-03-20T01:16:54.017+00:00Comments on Akin Akintayo: Thought Picnic: I am Perfect for my RoleAkin Akintayohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14254117443398207562noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3540911873094895295.post-67079895145185413252012-07-13T13:25:03.398+01:002012-07-13T13:25:03.398+01:00Yeah, acceptance of one's true circumstance is...Yeah, acceptance of one's true circumstance is the only way to truly begin to solve the problems one has. That is, if they can be solved. Otherwise one might also have to accept that certain things can not be "solved" and that in a way, also needs to be accepted.Hiding (which of course, is my past time) or denial never helps.<br /><br />There are so many things that happen in life. Doors closed, others opened. Nothing makes sense sometimes. Why certain things happen. For what purpose? Why me? the infinite question...<br /><br />I no longer ask such questions. I now just see life the way it is and deal with it as it is. That does not mean that it is fair or unfair or that I deserve or do not not deserve the things that happen. It just means that I have accepted that life does not really have a formula and the best one can do is live life as you have it now, in the present. Very hard to do but there is no alternative, living in the past or the future is like living in fantasy land. Its not real. What is real, is here and now.<br /><br />Keep on going strong, Akin. There will be better times ahead.<br /><br />Love always.Waffynoreply@blogger.com