Angst meetings
There are lessons
to be learnt from the collision of pseudonym and a reality that generally carries
stigma that suggests the anonym is the best representation of self with the
fleeting and the incidental.
People live secret
lives and find places for the expression of such with sometimes dire
consequences for others who are in many ways accepting of who they are.
Experiences of
angst-ridden double-life episodes should make one the wiser of such encounters
that the less said, the less harm is done and consequently the less trouble for
all concerned.
Rein in
Why there is any
need to rein in is a dilemma met by many in settings that are supposed to
provide the freedom of expression, yet one learns that reining in risk and
reining in honesty are the valid actions in self-preservation; that being the
preservation of anonymity and sanity, if you rein in loquacity.
Sadly, where some
refuse to take responsibility for the actions they as sane, sober adults in
pursuit of a thrill or fantasy indulge in, deciding to have others shoulder
such for them in a society where the blame culture is the first sanctuary of
the irresponsible, the honest and true is bruised.
The ignorance is worse
Beyond angst, the
worst encounters are those with the ignorant, despite the surfeit of knowledge
and information of risk, precaution, protection and vulnerability, they have
not taken the time to understand the basics, such that it becomes a crash
course in passion-killing discourse, the cue taken to immediately abort the
liaison.
No words except for
what one will not deign, no truths except for when it is necessary, avoiding
the tangling webs of deceit woven by the curious in search of the abominable to
those with whom they partner in life, to wit the visitation of the magi of the
law, that in fright anonym, pseudonym and orthonym collide, with all laid bare
by the intimidation of that number.
Jots taken, future
uncertain, ringing in the new on the wings of controversy. Becalm thyself, ye
have done naught wrong.
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